“Feminism became dirty word because people associate it with man-hate and I don’t think that’s what it’s about at all, if you stand for equality, you’re a feminist – I’m sorry to tell you, but you are."
-Emma Watson
Women raised me - my grandmothers and my aunts stood as both the father and the mother figure in my life. I grew up in an environment where women is the authority, that basically led me to live a life not constantly needing men. I didn't realize feminism is an actual issue our society face today, because I grew up in an environment of head-strong women that I thought we're way passed that already. Because I was fortunate enough to grow in a habitat where I am encouraged to be whoever I want to be, contrary to popular norm or stereotype. Whether I like it or not, I am a feminist and it started at a very young age.
I am a woman who speak my mind. I'll tell you when something upsets me, when I'm sad, when I'm overwhelmed, when I'm happy. I stand for what I believe in, and I stand by my values. I do not allow people to undermine me, to tell me what I can't do, and to treat me irreverently. And when you do, you're gonna hear it from me and it's not gonna be pleasant.
I was once told that I can't pass the most crucial exam of my life. I can't shake it off my mind, because I felt very disrespected. It saddens me to know that there are still people who would love to see someone fail at something they really care about and I think that's selfish. I focused my energies for the betterment of myself and I passed! I love it when I prove people wrong. The look on their faces is just priceless! I am a woman and I know I can overcome every hurdles that comes my way. Because I was raised that way.
I know a lot of super women. They are the single moms who stand as both the father and mother for their children, the breadwinners who works for the family so there is always food on the table, teachers who molds children to whoever they want to be, nurses who earn their badge everyday, women in service who serve selflessly everyday, and a lot more. There are a lot of super woman out there we can all learn from, but my ultimate super woman is definitely my mother. My mom taught me to think long-term and the value of sacrifice. To love selflessly and to enjoy life. Everytime I think of all the sacrifices she did for me, I can't help but think ... "If I become a mother someday, will I be like her? Or even close to that?". She also instilled in me that beauty is skin deep, that if a man really loves me he will not look for what I don't have (Read: ample amount of breast size) but will accept what I have that cannot be seen by the naked eye. That looks are not that important but a good heart, amazing personality and a mind full of wonder.
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EMMA WATSON
This woman need no introduction. She embodies Hermione very much, and I know if Hermione is a real person she will be very proud.
BIANCA GONZALEZ-INTAL
Before Bianca G. entered that famous yellow and blue house and became a household name, I've already been reading her blog The Diary of A Supergirl Wannabe since I was in high school. Growing up as dusky skinned teenager in a society where porcelain skin is the standard for beauty, Bianca G. helped me to embrace that being morena, or whatever complexion you have, is as beautiful. Because that is what makes you unique and beautiful, loving who you are without changing a thing.
MIRANDA KERR
This woman has it all! The body, a big heart and a beautiful soul. I thought she was just another pretty face ... but she's actually more than that. When I read her books Treasure Yourself and Embrace Yourself, I learned that pretty people like her, also get rejected. But her books taught me to make the best out of the situation, be grateful for the experience whether good or bad and always radiate positivity wherever you go and whoever you meet.
Cheers to all the amazing women I know! Keep inspiring and keep hustling!!!
